Live From Your Fullest Self

Personal Development Coaching

with Wanyi Dai Li

I offer personal development coaching via a systematic approach including parts work, guided meditation, and somatic introspection.

We will explore your current life, inquire into the gaps (practical, emotional, or relational), build an internal map of yourself, integrate more hidden parts, arrive at insights together, and come up with concrete actions.
Work with me if you are a high-ambition individual in a high-impact field who wants more agency, deeper self-trust, and a clear path to bringing your life vision into reality.
Schedule a free 15-minute chat here, or email me at coaching@wanyidaili.com.

Background

Jhourney (Jhana meditation), Mahamudra (Tibetan lineage meditation), and Sleepawake alum.
Core influences include IFS, inquiry, and somatic boundary systems.
Professional life: Stanford PhD, research and product leadership in tech (VP of Product).
Embodied work via partner dancing and music.
Diverse cultural and socio-economic background: grew up in China, lived in India, now the US.

Grab a time below — no back-and-forth over email needed.

I advise individuals and teams on their execution capability and roadmaps.
Tell me what you are working on and how you/your team work — I will identify your bottlenecks, clarify your priorities, set up roadmaps and milestones.
A few other ways to understand what I offer are:
- A life coach, but for your startup or research project.
- A fractional PM for your team, and sometimes chief of staff.
- A private investigator to assess how effective the current workflow and culture are.
- A peer rubber duck to talk through the gap between your vision and the day-to-day reality.
I believe teams already have the answers within themselves. I ask the right questions until you reach clarity for yourself.
I offer free consultations for in-house teams and members at Mox SF in the AI safety community.
Book a free 15-minute chat here, or get in touch at coaching@wanyidaili.com.

I've worked with teams of all sizes (1–50) across different stages, and I've been on the inside at companies from big tech to early-stage startups.
I've done advisory and fractional product work where I went in, talked to the team, and set up a product roadmap that the team was still following months later.
The most common thing people say after working with me is that no matter how complex the situation was going in, they leave knowing exactly what their next steps are.
I have broad technical training, ranging from an undergraduate degree in Physics and Computer Science to a PhD in Operations Research from Stanford University. I got to dive deep into a completely new technical field at every company I've worked for. Come explain your technical ideas to me!